ALL FOR THE NAME OF LUST

Today's proverbial sex scandal of Hayden and Halili (and few other women) have been the talk of the town for a month now. Radios, Television, broadsheets and tabloids contain no more than that of the sex video scandal of these people.

A supposed to be intimate encounter became a public feast to the eyes of many who sought nothing but view such private indulgence of two people doing what is meant to be a normal act of two people inlove. Or as what Katrina had thought. But then again, it may not be considered as normal because having sex outside the sanctity of marriage would always be considered as a sin.

As soon as the video was leaked, it was like an epidemic virus spreading in every internet sites and alleys notorious for selling pirated videos of any flicks, porn or not porn.

I too, had given in to the sinful interest of watching the videos and saw these pitiful women being betrayed by the perversion of their lover.

I was all the more amazed of how this scandal turned out to be so much more like a circus when every person involved had their chance of explaining. Among the 4 videos that i saw, i pity "Maricar" the most by the way.

With all the bruhahas going on about this case, few things were left on my mind...

For Hayden Jr, - shame on you for doing these to those women who trusted you. Doctors are not supposed to be Gigolos you know, they are supposed to be venerable.
For Katrina - you have learned your lesson the hard way i guess, next time...do not bite the hands that feed you, or in your case...the hands that hold the magic wand of beautification.
For Belo - its about time to buy yourself a new BOY TOY. The one you have right now is becoming expensive and causing you too much of your money and fame and your dignity as well. And please stop laughing at the current predicament of the girls involved during your interview as people might really confirm that maybe you are the person behind this, if it was not really you.
For the Lawyer who's handling Hayden's case - how ironic could it be for her to be handling and defending this case when infact she used to be shouting justice for women who are victim of such lewd and immoral act.
For Hayden Jr's mom - As our church had once taught us...Let us become a good parent in the eyes of God, rather than in the eyes of our children. It is far more important for us parents to teach our kids the lesson they need to learn to become a worthy individual rather than accepting them lovingly without teaching them to change for the better.

MABUTING MAGULANG...SA MATA NG DIYOS

May 10, Linggo...Araw ng mga Ina..

Maaga pa lamang ay binati na ako ng aking anak at ng kaniyang Ama.
Ang aking cellphone ay walang humpay sa kakatunog sa bawat mensaheng pumapasok dito.
Madalas, ito ay mga pagbati na mula rin sa mga dakilang Ina.
Nanghihinayang man sa aking load, ay minabuti ko na ring batiin sila ng "Happy Mother's Day!"
makadagdag man lang sa mga taong magpapasaya sa araw nila.
Matapos ang almusal, agad kaming nagtungo ng Simbahan upang magnilay para sa araw ng Linggo na Araw rin ng mga Ina.
Nakakatuwa si Padre...matapos nyang batiin ang mga Ina, ay agad siyang naghomily...

"MGA MAGULANG, MAGING MABUTI KAYONG MAGULANG SA MATA NG DIYOS AT HINDI SA MATA NG INYONG MGA ANAK..."

Hanudaw??? Nagkamali ba ako ng pandinig???
Ngunit muling inulit ni Padre ang mga naunang tinuran at tama nga ako sa aking narinig...
kasabay nito ay ipinaliwanag ni Padre ang kanyang sinabi...
Kaya naman ako naguluhan kasi ngayon ko lang narinig ang mga salitang yon.
Madalas kong naririnig e kung paanong maging mabuting magulang sa mga anak...
o paanong magsakripisyo ang mga magulang para sa mga anak...
pero ang maging mabuting magulang sa mata ng diyos at HINDI sa mata ng mga anak...yun, 1st time ko lang talaga narinig!

But then, may point nga namen si Padre...

Aanhin nating mga magulang ang pagsasakripisyo para sa mga anak natin kung hindi naman natin sila maturuan ng kabutihang asal, kababaang loob at kung ano pang mga kabutihan na gaya ng ipinapahayag sa Holy Bible.

Kapag daw tayong mga magulang ay ibinibigay ang lahat ng hilig at hiling ng ating mga anak...hindi iyon nangangahulugang isa na tayong mabuting magulang...
Dahil kapag hindi na natin kayang ibigay sa kanila ang nakasanayan nila...tayo na ang lalabas na pinakamasamang magulang.
Kapag inaayunan natin ang mga anak sa lahat ng bagay upang paglaon ay di na nila alam kung alin ang tama sa mali, alin ang dapat sa hindi dapat...at dumating ang sukdulang nais na nating bigyan ng disiplina ang mga anak...that would already be way too late na. Dahil sa pagkakataong yun, iisipin na ng mga anak natin na tayo na ang pinakamasamang magulang dahil hindi na tayo umaayon sa lahat ng kagustuhan nila.

Kaya't marapat na isipin natin kung paano ba talaga maging mabuting magulang para sa karangalan ng Diyos?
Ang tamang pagdidisiplina sa anak hanggat ito ay musmos pa lamang ay nararapat nating gawin... siguro nga makakaramdam sila ng pagkainis sa magulang nila...
Pero kapag sila ay nasa tamang edad na at isip, malalaman nilang tunay ngang pinagkaabalahan ng kanilang ama't ina ang pagpapalaki sa kanila...